How is your week going? cold and rainy here with a side of nasty cold to top it off. But I didn’t log in to chat about my head (nasty, painful, thanks for asking). I actually wanted to write about a question that’s come up with a few parents and different schools lately – Is it ok to take photos of my child at school and put them on Facebook for the family to see?
Seems simple enough – yes, your child, your photos, go right ahead. But of course it’s difficult because school events usually involve many, many, well, school children. Your beautiful darling may be dancing up a storm, but it’s likely that so are 24 other darlings right next them on stage.
So your photo that showcases their incomparable talent also shows 3 or 5 or 20 other kids too. And you probably didn’t ask each of their parents if you can post the pic online.
And that’s where the challenge begins! We do want to capture those never to be repeated (except at next year’s concert) moments, so here are my suggestions to make sure you can keep in with the mums at school…
- Think about cyber safety – does the pic show the school name or location or any details about any child? If they are wearing school uniform it probably does – so zoom out a bit so it can’t be read in the photo.
- If your darling has their photo take with with their BFF and you don’t want to cut them out (how rude!), just ask their mum or dad ‘I’m putting this on Facebook to show the grandparents – ok?’ It’s just good manners!
- If you have a photo you absolutely need to share ( I get it, sometimes our kids are just
hilariousdevine), use a free app like Skitch to blur the faces of those other kids. Bonus: your child’s face is the main feature of the photo now!
- And finally, think before you share. Where are you posting that photo? Consider who will see it and whether you are ok with that audience :0)
For me, I think this stuff is important because our kids have online profiles from a young age, before birth in some cases with all the ultrasound photos out there…So we have responsibility for their online footprint just as much as our own, and with a little thought we can make sure we aren’t over sharing other children’s photos either.
Do you post photos of your kids online? Let us know what you do or don’t do…
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